Looking for love - Men & Women looking for love online

Take a look how easy it can be to convince her that you're the one she needs!

1. Tell her how bad you messed up.

Perhaps you backed into someone's parked car and fled the scene un-noticed, or maybe you stole someone else's idea at work and took the credit for it, own up to it. Making it known that you had an error of judgment makes you seem defenseless which will see a woman's instincts kick in and she will want to hug you. Owning up to an error will win her over and shows that you trust her judgment and sentiment. By this stage she should experience a combination of compassion and assurance in you and she will want to make everything better - she may even take advantage of your vulnerability.

2. Make her body your temple.

After a few months of being intimate with her,alleviate her insecurities, (all women have them) pick a day where you have the whole day together in bed, pull down the sheets and run your eyes and fingers from the top of her body - slowly - making loving remarks as you slowly make your way down. Do not be surprised if you don't make it past her shoulders before she pulls you in for a passionate kiss.

3. Showing her your selfless self.

Whether it's delivering meals on wheels, attending fire drill training with the volunteer fire fighters, helping others in need shows her a sexy side to you that she never knew existed. This kind of behaviour tells her that you are capable of brushing aside your own needs and can put others first. Your 'caring citizen' attributes will motivate her to match your qualities and she will have a new found respect for you.

4. Unwind - together!

What's the main reason your advances for sex are turned down? - she's tired. Run a hot bath or shower, light the candles and set the mood with a gentle back rub while kissing her neck. You won't have to convince her that the best way to reduce stress is an orgasm release.

5. Include her in your plans.

You're hardly giving her any confidence in the relationship with a nonchalant attitude that doesn't factor in her involvement with your plans for the next 5 years. If she doesn't feel secure in the relationship her thighs will lock together - locking you out. Unless a man states his ambitions, dreams and goals, as the relationship develops she will begin to grow concerned about her security. It is inevitable that her motherly and family instincts will kick in sooner or later and if you are not on the same page, she may well move on.

6. Take a journey into cyberspace.

A sexy email is a great way to make her day. Tell her how you are going to spoil her tonight and what you plan to do with her. With the rise in popularity in online dating sites and social networking, singles and couples are quite often arranging to meet for sex online via an online chat room , instant messaging or via a sourcey email. Flirting and dating online is known to remove one's inhibitions, unleashing a wild side that is seldom released.